Yesterday was Jada’s first day of Jr. Muay Thai class I was soo excited for her! Cheryl hooked me up too.. instead of paying close to $300 for her membership, and uniform, I payed lets say.. half of that INCLUDING her uniform! I think that was an AWESOME deal.. Jada looked so cute in boxing shorts.. I have to buy her a smaller glove set my boxing gloves are too big for her. Yesterday she met with Dino her instructor and he just pretty much showed her the basics and form. Then she had to do some shawdow boxing and then got to punch on the bag a little.. I think this helps too with anything that she might have oppressed within her about me and her dad. I know she has a lot in her.. Mike says it too.. sometimes.. its hard to talk to Jada.. she’s soo emotional.. and the saddest part is.. you literally see the hurt in her when she cries.. I know A LOT has to do with me and her dad.. shes had her tantrums about wanting me and her daddy back together.. but I have to keep on reminding her.. There’s a reason why I left. And there’s a reason Why I will never go back.
I think with Jada going to the Gym with me also gives us mommy and daughter time alone… she’s turning 10 in a couple of weeks.. and she’s easing up on a lot of things.. but I know this is just the SILENCE BEFORE THE STORM. .. cuz puberty is gonna start setting in SOON … AND ohhh HELLS.. there goes the Estrogen levels, and the pre PM’S-ing…
I’ve gone thru this with Lala, Cece… but.. call me corney.. its also a beautiful time in her life.. cuz she’s gonna go thru that growth spurt.. and then she’ll be in that phase that defines her as a “pre-teen” instead of a “kid”..
On our way to the gym we talked about our family now.. and it made me feel good to hear that she thought Mike was wonderful for her mommy. And that was nice to hear.. I’m glad she thinks that of Mike..
Well when we got to the gym yesterday I sent Jada straight to her instructor and then I went into my circuit kickboxing class… HOLY, SHIT, MOTHER FUCKER!! Now that’s a WORKOUT!! I LOVED EVERY MOMENT of it too!!
I liked doing the freestyle kicks on the heavy bags, and also when we had to flip the 100lb dummies across the room and then once we made it there we had to pick them up and “CARRYING THE DUMMIE” back across the other side of the room… I was SWEATING!! There were like 6 or 7 circuts… after that.. AJ partnered up everyone and we had to spar!! This time we used the Muay Thai blocks.. FUCKING A!! THOSE THINGS ARE HEAVY AS HELL!! I thought since I’ll train first it wasn’t a big deal holding those … ERRR WRONG ANSWER.. those things are about 10 pounds or more each.. and every time Rossini Knee, Round housed, punched.. whatever… I felt the after effects.. plus you have to keep up with where your partner is kicking and so fourth.. I had a BLAST.. seriously.. I’ll ADMIT.. I think I am addicted to working out.. when it was my turn to fight.. I WENT OFF!! Rossini had to keep up with me…
On top of this Mass WORKOUT.. AJ made us do.. I think one million horse stance squats no back heal touching the ground so you feel the burn on the back of your thighs and ass… YEA… LEMME TELL YOU.. THAT SHIT WORKS!! Lol
Today at work I had to pee hella bad so I ran into the bathroom- went to the stall put the protective cover on the toilet seat, pulled my skirt up, pushed my panties down, and as soon as I TRIED to squat and sit on the toilet seat.. HOLY MOTHER… I almost screamed!!! Lol… My booty and back thigh muscles were BURNING!! Soo.. I had to take it easy and sit slow like a senior citizen holding on to the handicap railing in the bathroom stall to ease my sit down…. Haha…
Since I’m talking about the bathroom… and I’m just blogging my mind.. I also noticed.. when I use the handicap stall in the bathroom… my feet don’t touch the floor when I’m sitting on the toilet.. so yea.. I’m sitting there.. swinging my legs like I’m on a swing! Lol.. I just thought it was funny.. lol…
Ahhh.. well.. yesterday.. or humm lemme re-phrase that before I got home from work yesterday I was stressing about certain things for the party this Saturday.. Mike told me ONCE- Babe, I don’t want you to stress I’m gonna handle it.
I didn’t believe him.. or.. its not that I didn’t believe him.. but I didn’t think it would really happen.. and then LOW AND BEHOLD.. Mr. Steele to the RESCUE..SUPERMAN Mike came thru… and surprised me in a big way.. When he picked me up after work he had everything in the front seat waiting… and then he was like.. “oh look!, Whats that?!” I felt embarrassed and RELIEVED, AND HAPPY - Gosh, I have such mad love for this Man.. he has noo idea..
On top of that, after the gym, dinner, cleaning up, homework, chores.. etc…. let’s jus say, we had a multiple ALONE time session… AND… in a respectful Manner.. THE LORD HAS BEEN VERY GOOD TO THIS MAN IN MANY WAYS… with Strength, Stamina, Endurance… lol…
In my own words… THIS MAN IS A BEAST, A SAVAGE, A BARBARIAN… AND I guess what I’m trying to say is- unga bunga baby.. HE COULD BAM BAM ME ANYTIME!! haha… Mmm HES SOO GOOD… Hehe
NEWS FLASH!! EXTRA EXTRA!!
Ok , HE GOT THE JOB!!.. he just called me a couple of minutes ago and we were both screaming and cracking up.. I was in my office at work but I didn’t care… I’M JUST SOO HAPPY FOR HIM!!! For Us!! – He’s been on call but sometimes that just doesn’t cut it.. now he finally got HIRED on with a normal schedule! Later he’s planning on paying off some old union dues so he can start working out here in SF .. that way.. we can commute together into the city and home! Well first things first… I’m just happy he got the job.. Mike SOOOO deserves it. From everything he’s told me about his past and the all the heartache he’s gone thru .. yea.. ITS MIKE’S TURN NOW .. Thank you GOD – REAL TALK.. thank you!!
Even though sometimes it seems rough.. mysteriously there’s ALWAYS a blessing in the making behind the “rough times”.. AND that’s real!!
Well got A LOT Of stuff to do today.. Party is in 2 days!!
Life is GOOD!! (~.~)