I miss my baby brother Matt.Joshua, Mel Jr., and Matt
Its been awhile since me and him has really sat down and talked.. Like REAL TALK.. Ever since he married whats her face.. I don't like my sister in law.. I don't wanna say I HATE her.. because HATE is pretty harsh.. but I don't like her.
She gave BAD VIBES from the get go. When she first started comming over to my parents house she had no kind of manners whatsoever.. she would ring the doorbell and as soon as we would open the door.. the trick walked right in took her shoes off left them by the door and ran upstairs to my brothers room by passing my parents and anyone else who was home downstairs..
I just thought how "TACKY" and how disrespectful she was.. couldn't even introduce herself? couldn't even say "hello?"
My mom flipped when my brother announced he was marrying her.. it was like one of the WORST YEARS in my family's life. My mom till the very end was refusing to walk down the aisle on my brothers wedding because she couldn't stand his wife.. and then after the wedding... My parents abruptly left without saying goodbye to anyone and without attending the reception.. I had to do the Mother and Son dance with my brother... :(
Now moving forward..times have changed, I do not aknowledge her when both of us are at family functions. I say hello to my brother and his kids.. but I could seriously could care less for her.
Anyways.. about 8 years ago I pulled strings here at my job and was able to get Matthew a job with me. He worked upstairs in the Collection department...Everyone LOVED him.. till this day they always ask about him...
well he ended up leaving the company due to the complications he was having with his wife and what not... and for the past 3 years.. he's been in and out of jobs... I FEEL HORRIBLE for him and the kids. TIMES ARE ROUGH.. so I know...
Well I ended up talking to my union rep and I asked.. if they were hiring again would they consider him? She said yes.. he would be picked first before someone on the street since he already knows the buisness.. plus the fact that the managers upstairs are all his old homies that turned PRO.
I hope he takes this opportunity.. I hope this works out for him. I think it would be cool too if we worked in the same building again.. I miss seeing him and causing a scene with everyone when we start talking crap about our mom in a "funny way" people would trip out cuz they had no idea we were brother and sister... it was jus fun and funny... I miss him dearly.
I feel bad that hes stuck with an evil life sucking bitch. I could be wrong about her.. but so far.. its just been all bad.. there hasn't been anything "GOOD" ABOUT her yet.. except.. she made pretty kids with my brother.
Other than that.. When I see Matthew now.. its like he's no longer alive.. its like he just exsists, and sometimes I see myself in him when I used to be with Roland.. sad.
I miss him madly, and dearly... I pray that things really do change for him :)